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Horrible behaviour towards me and other female players.

This is a serious roleplay server, that reprimands such behaviour in the paragraph before it even lists the rules, and touches upon it again in the first 2 rules in the first section. Setting the expectation of tolerance for such behaviour and putting it forward to others that they should accept it, or stop what they're in the middle of doing and walk away from or what have you is an olde fashioned way of saying suck it up buttercup.

Maturity is a large factor of this community, its stressed to the fullest when trying to resolve disputes. But the expectation is put upon all users to act in a mature way. Maturity is not wisdom, nor is it a pre determined factor gained through evolution. It is a community set example of expectations, and like all things, they change. This coming year would be a good year to set the community expectation of individual responsibility for speaking out against such actions, and I am not saying to submit reports, leave that to the person who is taking the brunt of the storm. Be instead the peer that goes to the person, or people and explain why what they were doing was toxic, try to give them guidance, be reasonable, willing to listen and understanding. But be firm, going after a 10 year old because their voice is high calling them gay until they log out is not maturity, it's also not mature to be the person who stands by and allows it to happen, and has the expectation that it's someone else's issue to deal with. 

The song makes it seem like being a brick in the wall is negative, but the more bricks that crumble the more like the wall will come down. 

 
Drew said:
Right. I would just like to add to everyone. Actions of two people do not reflect on the whole gang. I know plenty of people in TCK who are excellent at roleplay and have a great position within our community. Do not let the actions of two people reflect on the rest of the gang. Yes some members are in the video, however they have been dealt with, I don't want their gang name to be tarnished due to silly people.

TCK, The guys who know they have no involvement in this you do not need to worry, the rest of the community value you here as great roleplayers!
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 Have to agree with this. I was only just giving this gang massive praise on Friday. 

Edit: 6000 posts. Go me!

 
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Essentially be respectful to everyone. Going OUT OF YOUR WAY to downgrade someone in any way (treat them as objects/ be toxic on multiple platforms (YouTube/forums/teamspeak/in-game etc)/ see them as 3rd class citizens) is fucking ancient, you shoulda been born in the 1800's because that's not the mindset that's accepted anymore.

Grow up, know the limits, be a fucking HUMAN.

 
People shouldn't really focus so much on the fact that I named the gang said people are part of.

I never said it's all of them since that would be absolutely stupid, I've met loads of nice people who are part of TCK! One of the people I play other games with is part of TCK and one of the nicest people I've ever met. 

This is going to be the last thing I will say about this, I just wanted to get a few things off my chest and it means a lot to me that there are people who support me! 

Have a nice christmas everyone! 

 
Right hello everyone, My name in the video is PCSO Felix, I can understand why everyone is pissed off at me. I have an explanation that I understand people will believe is complete bullshit *pardon my french*, but I have a little thing in my brain which I don't 100% understand, I don't want to use anything of what I'm about to say as an excuse it's just how it is, and I didn't want to publicly say this but I really friggin enjoy this server and I love the community so I'm going to say it now. So far I've been diagnosed with two little things, Depression and Autism, Depression throwing my emotions around, and Autism not really letting me get to understand people's emotions, what happened in this video was what happens to me too often in this world is my filter just breaks, I don't know when what I'm saying is wrong or right, and my friends being utter cucks dosen't help, they're literally people who go around making fun of people using the language I used there as a joke, I don't take it as a joke when I'm in the right frame of mind, I react like everyone here. I understand even saying this probably won't prevent getting banned, and I won't ever get promoted but regardless, Nana I'm sorry, I know that means nothing but I am, I can only hope you can Forgive me.

Have a good christmas,

Felix

If people want me off the server, if it makes this place a better community I will go. I don't want people to think of me of someone I'm not.

 
To be honest this is bullshit. Watching the ''Amazing roleplay'' made me cringe and light up a smoke due to me getting ridiculously angry. You guys seriously need to grow up and learn how to fucking behave, especially towards ladys.

My tip to you guys who are doing this is get the fuck out of the chair and go outside and try to get some social skills and act like humans you twats. 

Edit: While I was walking on the street with my bigger sister two guys said things just like on this Vid towards her. What happend next is what he deserved but that doesn't really matter now. I apologize for the language but this just flipped me off.

 
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@NanaI hope you understand that what the few members (I hope) of this community that are abusing you in these ways will not last long in our community, this community is built for all and people such as that PCSO will not last long in it if they carry on this way as it will not be tolerated. I really hope that the childish behaviour from those involved ends as this is an adult community and we do not take lightly to people that want to ruin your roleplay and fun just because of your gender.

Whether you are male, females, transgender, or an alien, you will always be welcome to our community and those that abuse you in any way will be dealt with by people like Vladic Ka, the management and staff team I know do not allow such behaviour to go unnoticed and will have your back for I hope the long future that you have in this community. If you every have more issues with such people don't be afraid to speak to such members as Vladic, tampax, drew and the rest of the admins and management on teamspeak and I'm sure the issue will be resolved.

I would like to apologise for the way you have been treated on behalf of the community and if you ever need them taken to prison for these acts my name is SPC Scott Sheerin, just send me a message and we can arrange it.

Regards

 
After spending about 30 minutes reading through these posts (thanks people :p), it's time for me to add a response. I'm very disappointed at the people involved. Some of these members have been here a long time and most are good lads and I'm shocked that such people would do these things. First of all, I'm going to apologise to @Nanaand @Banana Duckon behalf of the community for these situations occurring because this is not how we do things at RPUK as we expect much better. To those involved, since you obviously don't know how to treat somebody, I'm going to give you a phrase and try to remember it. Every time you are going to say something think about would you like it if they say that to you. If you think no then you know not to say it. I understand that it was a 'bit of banter' however this 'bit of banter' went way too far over the boundary as those people are well aware of. I hope we never see behaviour like this again because it's just disgusting how people treat others. If you haven't got anything nice to say then don't say it. 

- Shambala12

 
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Girls are so rare on games likes these and disrespecting them is just going to make them leave, which is unacceptable. I get tired of speaking to men all the time, since all men share a somewhat similar mindset, but girls differ. They have their own unique way of looking at things and commenting on them, which fills me with laughter and happiness. They add variety to roleplaying, which makes them an important part of the community. I also hate, that there are no female characters in the game, but that's for the Arma devs to hear.

Please don't leave @Nana(and other girls) 

If you ever need any Police, NHS or Bounty hunting assistance, then do not hesitate to spam me with messages. 👍

Best Wishes

Danish Pirate

 
ASA Felix said:
Right hello everyone, My name in the video is PCSO Felix, I can understand why everyone is pissed off at me. I have an explanation that I understand people will believe is complete bullshit *pardon my french*, but I have a little thing in my brain which I don't 100% understand, I don't want to use anything of what I'm about to say as an excuse it's just how it is, and I didn't want to publicly say this but I really friggin enjoy this server and I love the community so I'm going to say it now. So far I've been diagnosed with two little things, Depression and Autism, Depression throwing my emotions around, and Autism not really letting me get to understand people's emotions, what happened in this video was what happens to me too often in this world is my filter just breaks, I don't know when what I'm saying is wrong or right, and my friends being utter cucks dosen't help, they're literally people who go around making fun of people using the language I used there as a joke, I don't take it as a joke when I'm in the right frame of mind, I react like everyone here. I understand even saying this probably won't prevent getting banned, and I won't ever get promoted but regardless, Nana I'm sorry, I know that means nothing but I am, I can only hope you can Forgive me.

Have a good christmas,

Felix

If people want me off the server, if it makes this place a better community I will go. I don't want people to think of me of someone I'm not.
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Thanks for that, it shows the mature side of you im sorry for what happened its justified of course but i hope people dont look on you too bad for this mistake its a HUGE mistake but after all we are all human i understand why nana is pissed because of all the abuse and i understand if she doesnt accept what you has said but you have done the right thing and im on your side bud hope others see it this way too. P.S would never speak like that but were not all the same.

 
I have to gree with this. About two days ago there was two girls around my age 14, playing on the server and some of the things that were said we're just horrible, irrelevant and completely unnecessary coming from men a lot older, that is completely wrong. If you wouldn't say something like that to a girl's face don't say it to them in RolePlay, on any other game, Snapchat I don't care what your on, if you wouldn't say it to their face don't send it to them in a message. This is also a clear example of why a large percentage of those who play games are men as girls get treated like shit to be honest, I know a few people who are female and would like to get into gaming but won't due to the community. I might be sounding like I'm sticking up for girls just because their girls but that really isn't the case. I'd like to see all of this dirty, immature carrying on to stop and to crack down on those who do. Whoever it was from TCK that said you'd kick in her back door, I can't speak for you as I don't even know who did it but for future reference just think about what your saying first, it can go a long way. Anyways that's another one of my ridiculously long rants over. 

~ James Travers

 
[SIZE=14.6667px]Hello there lads and lasses.[/SIZE]

[SIZE=14.6667px]I just wanted to let everyone know that i’ve had some time to think about my actions and i know that what i did was wrong and unacceptable, so i decided to personally apologize to Nana and sent her a message this evening. I know a message can't take back the things that was said that night but i hope it shows that i am genuinely sorry and understand the hurt caused.[/SIZE]

[SIZE=14.6667px]Again not only did i let myself down but i let the lads in TCK down massively. I should've known better and should be setting a good example for them to follow.[/SIZE]

[SIZE=14.6667px]I spent the last year or so helping build up this gang with a few others and we have came a long way it’s been a load of fun. I don’t want people to judge my countless hours on this server over that daft 5 minute video and certainly don't want you to judge TCK either.[/SIZE]

[SIZE=14.6667px]As some of you know i’m actually not a bad guy and i really enjoy playing on the server with you all and hopefully you can forgive me for my actions. [/SIZE]

[SIZE=14.6667px]Ya boy Pee[/SIZE]

 
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ASA Felix said:
https://gyazo.com/ff2f65a91bde59b5d70fa5018df01d25

I think me and nana are all good now tho :)




 




 





 
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Oh boy, you are lucky, I was just tracking your ass down on the PNC.... You literally just avoided a blacklist.

In regards to this thread, I agree with this 100%, Myself and @AlfonsPappaa while ago played with a certain female (won't mention her for reasons), and we saw the shit some hobos and salty cunts said to her, and lets just say, the sound of a 7.62 in their head was a pleasing sound. 

Behaviour like this isn't tolerated here. If you behave like that, [Insert @UNMC Smith 's "get the fuck outta here - conor mcgregor " video]. If I ever see a cop behave like this you can kiss your status goodbye and possibly your privilege to be on this server.

 
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iArranx said:
[SIZE=14.6667px]Hello there lads and lasses.[/SIZE]

[SIZE=14.6667px]I just wanted to let everyone know that i’ve had some time to think about my actions and i know that what i did was wrong and unacceptable, so i decided to personally apologize to Nana and sent her a message this evening. I know a message can't take back the things that was said that night but i hope it shows that i am genuinely sorry and understand the hurt caused.[/SIZE]

[SIZE=14.6667px]Again not only did i let myself down but i let the lads in TCK down massively. I should've known better and should be setting a good example for them to follow.[/SIZE]

[SIZE=14.6667px]I spent the last year or so helping build up this gang with a few others and we have came a long way it’s been a load of fun. I don’t want people to judge my countless hours on this server over that daft 5 minute video and certainly don't want you to judge TCK either.[/SIZE]

[SIZE=14.6667px]As some of you know i’m actually not a bad guy and i really enjoy playing on the server with you all and hopefully you can forgive me for my actions. [/SIZE]

[SIZE=14.6667px]I’d like to wish you all a Merry Christmas on behalf of TCK.[/SIZE]

[SIZE=14.6667px]Ya boy Pee[/SIZE]
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your all good to me small blip in a shining time spent on the server just learn and move on and make the shift j happen.

 
VRambo said:
Oh boy, you are lucky, I was just tracking your ass down on the PNC.... You literally just avoided a blacklist.

In regards to this thread, I agree with this 100%, Myself and @AlfonsPappaa while ago played with a certain female (won't mention her for reasons), and we saw the shit some hobos and salty cunts said to her, and lets just say, the sound of a 7.62 in their head was a pleasing sound. 

Behaviour like this isn't tolerated here. If you behave like that, [Insert @UNMC Smith 's "get the fuck outta here - conor mcgregor " video]. If I ever see a cop behave like this you can kiss your status goodbye and possibly your privilege to be on this server.
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Boi I've already left the server read my departure letter

VRambo said:
Oh boy, you are lucky, I was just tracking your ass down on the PNC.... You literally just avoided a blacklist.

In regards to this thread, I agree with this 100%, Myself and @AlfonsPappaa while ago played with a certain female (won't mention her for reasons), and we saw the shit some hobos and salty cunts said to her, and lets just say, the sound of a 7.62 in their head was a pleasing sound. 

Behaviour like this isn't tolerated here. If you behave like that, [Insert @UNMC Smith 's "get the fuck outta here - conor mcgregor " video]. If I ever see a cop behave like this you can kiss your status goodbye and possibly your privilege to be on this server.
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I've been blacklisted from the police too, it's complicated, it was all on good terms with Kieran and Tilktak, I'm allowed to re apply but like I said in my letter I don't think I want to waste anyone else's time

 
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