Tywan Dakan
Member
- Location
- UK
In-game Name
Tywan Dakan
Steam ID
76561198369618420
Please provide a link to your previous denied appeal.
https://www.roleplay.co.uk/topic/106469-un-ban-appeal-tywan-dakan-070618-denied/?tab=comments#comment-614814
In your own words, please type why you think you were banned.
So to begin with, I'm gonna make this known first, it has not been exactly 6 months since my last appeal. It's been about, just under 5 months. So I know me ticking the box at the bottom saying that it has been 6 months isn't entirely true, but I just wanted to be heard out, and hopefully have that that final month dismissed if it was possible.
I was banned because of my actions towards a female member of the community, a paramedic. I called her a sket after having a couple of drinks irl, and took my roleplaying as a chav too far. I acted immaturely and without any respect towards other people.
What have you been upto in the last 6 months+ ?
The last *5 months for me have been the hardest of my time, but also the most rewarding. After I first got my unban appeal denied, I wasn't too bothered, and was still acting like a bit of a troll on other games, having a few drinks most nights to make the experience more enjoyable for myself, and not for other people. But at the beginning of July my mother sadly passed away. This isn't some form of guilt trip before anyone says it, because I know it kinda sounds that way, but I looked at it as a life lesson. Her passing showed me how short life really is. She used to drink a lot for the majority of her life, which is why I was so quick to move out of her house in the first place, she wasn't the nicest person to be around. But then I started to see how slowly I was becoming like her. So I changed my ways, and stopped drinking most nights. Now I'll only have a drink once a week when Im having couples night with my girlfriend most weeks. I looked at how shitty of a person I was, so I decided to change that, and started helping out at my community more. My boss, who is also a Distirct Commissioner for the Scouts, mentioned to me how he was low on scout leaders for scouts/Beaver groups, so I openly volunteered, not only to help them but also to keep myself distracted from the dark time in my life. And it helped. I have now been a scout leader for about 3 months now as well. Of course that is only a part time thing. I have also been promoted to Supervisor at my work, which has also helped my responsibility. I really have felt like I'm really making a difference in these last few months, not just to myself but mainly to my community here.
Why do you want to return ?
I want to return because before I did get banned on this server I really enjoyed the game, not just the game itself, but the society and how sociable the community is. I miss quite a few members of the community that would roleplay with me, even when I was being an annoying disrespectful idiot. I've been keeping in touch with a few of them on social medias, and they've been playing the arma 3 roleplay servers again for the last month or so, and it reminded me how much I had missed it.
I feel like I can now actual offer a lot more to this community than just laughs, but I can also other an experience. I would like to stop being the troublesome and insulting civilan I once was, and try my hand at becoming a police officer, or at least applying for it. I know that my experience dealing with complaints at my work from customers, as well as trying to teach and take care of kids at my scout group, has made me feel more than prepared for the role.
Why should we unban you ?
I should be unbanned because I feel as if I have changed since I was last active on this game. Im not the kid I once was, at least the one I used to act. My maturity now stands out amongst my friends, even I can see that. Sure I still have a sense of humour, but I know now the limits on a joke, and when a joke can becoming insulting.
I just want to put my dues forward, and ask for the forgiveness from you guys, because I am ashamed at how I used to act, it was embarrassing. If given the chance, wherever she remembers or not, or wherever she still plays the game or not, I want to apologise to the paramedic. It was unfair and cruel for me to speak to a member of the community like that, just because she was a girl. I knew better than that, and I know now that I am better than that. Even if this appeal does get denied, if it was possible for someone to pass a note onto her just saying that I am sorry for how I spoke to her back then, then I would really appreciate it.
Please confirm this unban request is for you.
Yes
I have read and understand the unban appeal process
Yes
Please confirm you understand there is no timeframe for your appeal.
Yes
I confirm 6 months+ have passed since my denied appeal.
Yes
Before you submit this form please confirm you have fully read the rules click here
Yes
Tywan Dakan
Steam ID
76561198369618420
Please provide a link to your previous denied appeal.
https://www.roleplay.co.uk/topic/106469-un-ban-appeal-tywan-dakan-070618-denied/?tab=comments#comment-614814
In your own words, please type why you think you were banned.
So to begin with, I'm gonna make this known first, it has not been exactly 6 months since my last appeal. It's been about, just under 5 months. So I know me ticking the box at the bottom saying that it has been 6 months isn't entirely true, but I just wanted to be heard out, and hopefully have that that final month dismissed if it was possible.
I was banned because of my actions towards a female member of the community, a paramedic. I called her a sket after having a couple of drinks irl, and took my roleplaying as a chav too far. I acted immaturely and without any respect towards other people.
What have you been upto in the last 6 months+ ?
The last *5 months for me have been the hardest of my time, but also the most rewarding. After I first got my unban appeal denied, I wasn't too bothered, and was still acting like a bit of a troll on other games, having a few drinks most nights to make the experience more enjoyable for myself, and not for other people. But at the beginning of July my mother sadly passed away. This isn't some form of guilt trip before anyone says it, because I know it kinda sounds that way, but I looked at it as a life lesson. Her passing showed me how short life really is. She used to drink a lot for the majority of her life, which is why I was so quick to move out of her house in the first place, she wasn't the nicest person to be around. But then I started to see how slowly I was becoming like her. So I changed my ways, and stopped drinking most nights. Now I'll only have a drink once a week when Im having couples night with my girlfriend most weeks. I looked at how shitty of a person I was, so I decided to change that, and started helping out at my community more. My boss, who is also a Distirct Commissioner for the Scouts, mentioned to me how he was low on scout leaders for scouts/Beaver groups, so I openly volunteered, not only to help them but also to keep myself distracted from the dark time in my life. And it helped. I have now been a scout leader for about 3 months now as well. Of course that is only a part time thing. I have also been promoted to Supervisor at my work, which has also helped my responsibility. I really have felt like I'm really making a difference in these last few months, not just to myself but mainly to my community here.
Why do you want to return ?
I want to return because before I did get banned on this server I really enjoyed the game, not just the game itself, but the society and how sociable the community is. I miss quite a few members of the community that would roleplay with me, even when I was being an annoying disrespectful idiot. I've been keeping in touch with a few of them on social medias, and they've been playing the arma 3 roleplay servers again for the last month or so, and it reminded me how much I had missed it.
I feel like I can now actual offer a lot more to this community than just laughs, but I can also other an experience. I would like to stop being the troublesome and insulting civilan I once was, and try my hand at becoming a police officer, or at least applying for it. I know that my experience dealing with complaints at my work from customers, as well as trying to teach and take care of kids at my scout group, has made me feel more than prepared for the role.
Why should we unban you ?
I should be unbanned because I feel as if I have changed since I was last active on this game. Im not the kid I once was, at least the one I used to act. My maturity now stands out amongst my friends, even I can see that. Sure I still have a sense of humour, but I know now the limits on a joke, and when a joke can becoming insulting.
I just want to put my dues forward, and ask for the forgiveness from you guys, because I am ashamed at how I used to act, it was embarrassing. If given the chance, wherever she remembers or not, or wherever she still plays the game or not, I want to apologise to the paramedic. It was unfair and cruel for me to speak to a member of the community like that, just because she was a girl. I knew better than that, and I know now that I am better than that. Even if this appeal does get denied, if it was possible for someone to pass a note onto her just saying that I am sorry for how I spoke to her back then, then I would really appreciate it.
Please confirm this unban request is for you.
Yes
I have read and understand the unban appeal process
Yes
Please confirm you understand there is no timeframe for your appeal.
Yes
I confirm 6 months+ have passed since my denied appeal.
Yes
Before you submit this form please confirm you have fully read the rules click here
Yes
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