Unban Appeal - Hive_unbannn - Community Banned

[Hive_unbannn]

Unban Appeal for Hive_unbannn 

In-game Name: Hive

Server: Community Banned

Steam ID: 76561198234428764

Ban ID: N/A

Reason given for your ban: (C1.6) Community Ban - The Staff Team may remove any member from the servers and community at any time if they are considered disruptive to the community or we have a valid reason to believe they are here to cause issues. - Permanent Ban

In your own words, please type why you think you were banned.: Hello,
The reason behind my 1.6 community ban was because of my own stupid actions. Going back a year now, when the Arma 3 server was up I was in a channel with Maxim as we all know and we decided to be stupid... Changing the channel names to things which were.. lets say questionable and should NOT of been put on.

Why should we unban you ?: Right, this is going to be a long one and I would appreciate if this could have a good read through. Now.. we all know I wasn't the most liked member of the community, due to my toxicity and hostile attitude towards basically everyone except the "AR" lot, I'd personally say I fell in with the wrong group of people on this server (which was said to me many times and that I should of backed out, but me being me at the time didn't care and refused to listen) Falling into this group of people turned me into an abosolute cunt and I raise my hands and admit that, Arma really turned me into a toxic person and I didn't care at the time. All I cared about then was logging on the server and going to the Redzones and being a toxic gunfight hungry person which wasn't very bright of me cause look where I am now...

I can now say though, a year later, I am no longer toxic. Don't believe me now, but this is why I'm appealing my ban after a year so I can PROVE my self to the staff of the RPUK Community that I am infact "reformed" The toxic me is in the past and won't ever come back, I've left that group of toxic players and moved on to more nice and calm people, who aren't toxic. It's at the point where people actually enjoy talking to me now cause I don't start hurling abuse at them, I can actually have a conversation with no toxicity or Unnecessary words which shouldn't be said.

So getting to the MAIN point, I'd like to first of start by saying that I am sorry to the Community and especially the Staff team (you'll know who you are) you have my apologies for what I have done/caused over my time in the Arma days, but I am no longer that person, and I'd also like to point out that Samantha/Sammy said that "I have not only closed, but nailed the door shut" Here i am trying to open it, seeking for one more chance if the Staff Team could grant me that. I am coming here to play FiveM with some of the nicer people of the community and actually have a decent Roleplay experience, not to be toxic. I know it hard to believe, but its true. Going on to what I did with Maxim..Yeah it wasn't the brightest of ideas i've ever had, changing channel names like that and spamming the whole teamspeak so they could see it, there was alot of questionable name changes in there like "Wilco Die" or something in one of them and a some really questionable ones I can't say I don't think. There is not much I can do other than apologise to those affected by my actions. Going in Channels aswell giving loads of abuse that just wasn't needed, and I honestly regret every toxic decision I made.

I'd really appreciate another chance, even though I do not deserve it to prove my self to you. I am more than happy to talk in a Channel In teamspeak/Discord to Staff or Management if they have any questions or concerns. Even though there is a high chance of this being denied, I appreaciate the time you took to read and consider this.

Thank you.

Please confirm that you have read the unban appeal process and rules: Yes

 

[Sammy]

Here we are again, 7 months after your last appeal.

You are right, your chances of getting unbanned are near 0 but I will hear you out nonetheless. 

Simple question... Why? 

Why do you want to come back to a community that, according to your own words over a long period of time, has done nothing but do you wrong? 
Why be part of a community of "dictators" and "power hungry cunts" as you very much liked to call the members of staff in the past?
 

 

[Hive_unbannn]

Here we are again, 7 months after your last appeal.

You are right, your chances of getting unbanned are near 0 but I will hear you out nonetheless. 

Simple question... Why? 

Why do you want to come back to a community that, according to your own words over a long period of time, has done nothing but do you wrong? 
Why be part of a community of "dictators" and "power hungry cunts" as you very much liked to call the members of staff in the past?
 

Right, first of all I'd like to say thank you for actually hearing me out and reading it. I really thought I would get instantly denied. However, you are willing to hear me me out on my answer and I really appreciate that Samantha.

So, going at the question "Why?" Well, RPUK has been my first community, my first place I ever played and grew in back in the day. It's not the community that did me wrong... it's my self who I've done wrong... This community is one of the best and I'd hate to never be able to come back here.. I want to show everyone here I am reformed and no longer the hated, toxic cunt I was back in the Arma days. 

Going of the part you said  "power hungry cunts" Yeah, I'd like to apologise Samantha.. I remember that being said when you took my tags and simply did your job as Staff Member, but yet me being me back then I made a HUGE deal out of it, when really I should of just said thank you and that I didn't know I had to have it removed. Worst thing was you were being nice about it, yet I was a cunt to you, so I have nothing else to say on this part except I'm sorry, Samantha.

RPUK was the best community I've been in, I just spoilt it all and ended up here asking to come back. It's not that the server is full of "Dictators" Its just me and my toxicity weren't welcome and every time I was banned, it was either due to toxic behaviour or me not caring about breaking them rules, but now I've grown up and realised everything i've done was all MY fault, yet I blamed it on the server and/or players of the community. There is no one else to blame for my behaviour, apart from my self.

I just want to say that if this Appeal gets denied, thank you for taking some of your time to go through it and consider it , Samantha. 

Thank you.

 

[Sammy]

I remember you being a decent roleplayer back in the day. You were able to provide good quality and make scenarios worthwhile... What has changed in your last months here? What lead to you being the way you were and taking it to such extremes? What happened to that toxic circle you found yourself being so comfortable in?

 

[Hive_unbannn]

I remember you being a decent role-player back in the day. You were able to provide good quality and make scenarios worthwhile... What has changed in your last months here? What lead to you being the way you were and taking it to such extremes? What happened to that toxic circle you found yourself being so comfortable in?

I remember to.. I even remember doing alot of Medic patrols with you and being one of the first to talk to you. That was when I was liked by the community, giving actual decent roleplay and not just logging on to have gunfights. 

Alot has changed, and I mean alot. I have walked away from the toxic side of me, it is no more. For once I'm actually nice to people, I know that's hard to believe, but I was nice once before and I am nice again now.. even you wanted to speak to me at times, but after time went on i fell in with the complete wrong group of people who were "Armed Response" on Arma, I was even TOLD by multiple members of the community, even staff that I will become toxic and that these people were not ones to be around, but did i listen? No, and ill be honest Samantha, if i just listened, i'd be here still 'cause I wouldn't be community banned. I'll be straight up honest with you sam, its not the community that failed me, its me who failed myself, only i am to blame for my actions and I deserved everything that happened to me.

Falling in with the wrong group changed me, MASSIVELY and for that I have no excuse other than I was stupid to be honest.. The toxic circle I was in all got banned, quit arma and some are even still being toxic to this day still, from what i've heard, but I don't speak to them. I lost my closest friends in the community all because I wanted to go to redzones with a MK1 and be toxic to people, now I am friends again with them people I lost cause i've told them I walked away form that toxic group, I want nothing more to do with them. I am a new person, Sam. I can only give you my word.. Don't believe me if you want, but thats the truth. It's really made me realise how much I lost to be honest... and i regret EVERY toxic decision I made... I can only say I'm sorry to you and to the community..

 

[Sammy]

Let´s assume I make the decision to open that door again...

What are your intentions going forward? How can you assure me that you will not fall into your old pattern again? 

As you can guess, many people would not be voting for letting you play here again, if given the choice. How can you assure us that this behaviour is in the past and will never happen again? Will you come forward to report rule breaks, even if it´s concerning your friends for example? Will you be able to recognise the same toxic pattern in other people and stay away from them this time or are you just going to get comfortable with forming a little toxic group again?

 

[Hive_unbannn]

Let´s assume I make the decision to open that door again...

What are your intentions going forward? How can you assure me that you will not fall into your old pattern again? 

As you can guess, many people would not be voting for letting you play here again, if given the choice. How can you assure us that this behaviour is in the past and will never happen again? Will you come forward to report rule breaks, even if it´s concerning your friends for example? Will you be able to recognise the same toxic pattern in other people and stay away from them this time or are you just going to get comfortable with forming a little toxic group again?

Yeah, I did guess that, not many of the Staff are fond of me, but they have there reasons because of what I became. 

Okay, if that chance was granted and the door open once more. I could show you how reformed I am, and now you won't have to worry about me falling into the wrong group of people, its honestly made me realise it doesn't take much to be nice, I was the biggest cunt going and you and me both know that Sam. It's came to the point where if someones toxic I just walk away. I don't have time for it anymore.. I've grew up and regained my friendship with people who I thought i would never speak to again.

Yes, I would come forward with rule breaks EVEN if my friends are concerned, because whats the point in breaking rules and ruining other peoples experiences for no reason? I know im one to talk, but thats my mind set now.  It's made me realise what experiences i've ruined by being toxic, all they wanted to do was roleplay and make good scenarios, but me being me at the time spoiled it by being toxic and a cunt. This won't just be player reports though, it would be bug reports aswell as any other kind of report that can help.

I would be able to recognize toxicity in other people and that's when I say to my self I need to stay away, I don't want to associate with any kind of toxic anymore, its not me and nor will it be me again, it feels good to actually be liked by people instead of people not wanting to be around me or even message me...Like I say, im disappointed in my self for what I became. 

If I was to be let back on, I'd probably do my normal and sit in TS and talk to people, I even want to play the server! I've really missed the community and all I want to do now is play and make fun experiences for people and give good roleplay... as i did once back on Arma Like you said. Even we had good experiences, until I became A cunt. I want to be able to prove my self to you, if getting granted thiss LAST chance. To be able to have another chance at this communty would be great and to show people what roleplay I can give, and not what toxicity I can bring.

I'd also like to (if possible) give an apology for how toxic I was to you and tell you how I am now over TS, but its not my call. 

Thank you.

 

[Sammy]

Right... After careful consideration, I am willing to give you one golden chance. If you ruin this, there will be no more. 

Go and get familiar with the rules, as they have changed quite a bit since your time here.
Any bans during the next 6 months - you are out.
Any drama or toxicity at all - you are out.
Any shady rule playing and walking on edges - you are out. 

Keep in line and show us that the chance we´re giving you here is being used.

I will lift your ingame, discord and ts ban now.  When it comes to your old forum account, keep a link to that and this unban appeal ready and open a ticket on discord. 

Do not make me regret this decision. 

 

[Sammy]

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