Un-ban Appeal - Urma - 03/19/2017 (Unbanned)

[Urma]

In-game Name
Urma

Steam ID
76561198047916297

The date of your ban.
02/24/2017

Member of the team that banned you.
Robbie

Reason given for your ban.
Abusive Behavior

The Server you initially were banned on.
Server 2

In your own words, please type why you think you were banned.
I called someone "autistic" in side chat three times, which is a violation of rule 1.3 of the Roleplay UK Community rules.

Why should we unban you ?
I try to be nice to people who are nice to me (out of roleplay, at least) but there are times when I am tired and annoyed and I need to vent my frustration somewhere, which happened to be side chat this time. I was an asshole to a person who did nothing to deserve it and I am sorry for that. But I learn from my mistakes, and I believe that after almost one month of being banned, I have learned my lesson and will not repeat my mistakes. I usually play religiously by the server rules, because this server has given me some of the best moments in Arma 3 and I have made many friends during my time on this server, which I don't want to throw away. I hope you give me another chance and I promise you will not be disappointed.

Please confirm this unban request is for you.
Yes

I have read and understand the unban appeal process
Yes

Please confirm you understand there is no timeframe for your appeal.
Yes

Before you submit this form please confirm you have fully read the rules click here
Yes

 

[Tampy]

I'm half tempted to deny this right off of the bat...

Even if you do need to 'vent your frustration', why do you feel the need to hurl this sort of abuse towards people for no reason? What is the need to be so toxic?

 

[Urma]

I don't remember the context of these messages, the first message is obviously directed towards someone, but the second message might've been me just screwing around, but I digress.

Among our friends calling each other "autist" and "autistic" is very common, because in our language (Estonian) it's developed into a pretty casual swear word that gets thrown around pretty often. I didn't mean to actually hurt anyone with these messages, and I am baffled and embarrassed that I actually went out of my way to write something that idiotic for absolutely no reason, but again there is no excuse for this and all I can do is apologise for this and ask for another chance, which I understand you have no obligation to give me.

If there is any way to have a talk on TS or something like that to prove I am better than this, I would happily come and try to show you I am not what these messages portray me as: a toxic idiot. 


 

 

[Samatlewis]

What can YOU bring to the server should you be unbanned?

How can you safeguard that this won't happen again?

Do you fully understand how offensive the insults are that you've thrown around? This is the internet and although nothing less can be expected we like to assume we are a respectful community that doesn't tolerate such phrases.

 

[Samatlewis]

@Urma please respond soon otherwise this dispute will time out.

 

[Urma]

I believe that I have good creative capability and improvisation skills to create fun RP situations for everyone involved by talking and trying to reason with people first and foremost, instead of trying to rob or murder as efficiently and quickly as possible. I believe that my history of playing Dungeons and Dragons with friends has really helped these qualities and that I can offer some great player interaction and laughs in general.

I fully realise now how much you value your sense of community and that I am not welcome on this server because of this behaviour. This ban, and trying to play on other servers during it, has disciplined me and made me realise what I'm actually missing out on: a fantastic community that is unparalleled in roleplay by any server.

I understand that the insults I used are very offensive to some people, and I would like to apologise again for my choice of words and behaviour. It was a case of "do before you think" and I give my promise, whatever it's worth, that this will never happen again and that I will treat the members of this community with respect.

 

[RuTHLeSS INFO]

Hello,

After reading this report, thinking to myself why you didn`t think that this type of behavior would get you PERM banned. This obviously a mistake, and also your first violation concerning the server rules that got broken. 

I let give you a chance to play here again, don`t let us down... If your really frustrated, then chill away from the game. Think twice, before typing stuff like this.

Unbanned