Un-ban Appeal - Tywan Dakan - 30/10/18 (Unbanned)

[Tywan Dakan]

# = Taken from Perm Appeal

In-game Name
Tywan Dakhan

Steam ID
76561198369618420

The date of your ban.
07/06/18

Member of the team that banned you.
Rekkemmo

Reason given for your ban.
Vulgar language towards a member of a community

The Server you initially were banned on.
Server 1

In your own words, please type why you think you were banned.
I had recently filled out an unban appeal, but made it on the "Perma Ban Appeal" by accident, so I will leave a link of it here as I did spend a while typing it out last night and really put a lot of effort into, which I hope you guys are able to see it too.

https://www.roleplay.co.uk/topic/111251-permanent-ban-appeal-tywan-dakan-denied-redirected/?tab=comments#comment-642053

Nevertheless I will write out on here quickly before I have to head to work. But about 5 months ago I was banned from this server by a speaking to a female paramedic rudely within the game and called her a sket. I was taking my homour too far at the time without any form of remorse or sympathy for others. I was selfish back then, in the real world and in the gaming world.

So to begin with, I'm gonna make this known first, it has not been exactly 6 months since my last appeal. It's been about, just under 5 months. So I know me ticking the box at the bottom saying that it has been 6 months isn't entirely true, but I just wanted to be heard out, and hopefully have that that final month dismissed if it was possible.I was banned because of my actions towards a female member of the community, a paramedic. I called her a sket after having a couple of drinks irl, and took my roleplaying as a chav too far. I acted immaturely and without any respect towards other people.

Why should we unban you ?
I should be unbanned because of the progress I've made in my life within these few months. As you can tell from my previous appeal (link is ^^ up there), it has been a difficult few months, regarding family and personal issues. But I didn't want to let it break me or make me even more toxic of a human being, so I changed myself for the better, and actually started living life to the full. Being the adult I was raised to be, and not being the kid I wanted to be back then. I definitely feel as if I have changed, and my actions back then will not be repeated if I was to get my unban, I can promise.

I should be unbanned because I feel as if I have changed since I was last active on this game. Im not the kid I once was, at least the one I used to act. My maturity now stands out amongst my friends, even I can see that. Sure I still have a sense of humour, but I know now the limits on a joke, and when a joke can becoming insulting.I just want to put my dues forward, and ask for the forgiveness from you guys, because I am ashamed at how I used to act, it was embarrassing. If given the chance, wherever she remembers or not, or wherever she still plays the game or not, I want to apologise to the paramedic. It was unfair and cruel for me to speak to a member of the community like that, just because she was a girl. I knew better than that, and I know now that I am better than that. Even if this appeal does get denied, if it was possible for someone to pass a note onto her just saying that I am sorry for how I spoke to her back then, then I would really appreciate it.

Please confirm this unban request is for you.
Yes

I have read and understand the unban appeal process
Yes

Please confirm you understand there is no timeframe for your appeal.
Yes

Before you submit this form please confirm you have fully read the rules click here
Yes

 

[Gordon]

I've edited this ban appeal to include the information from your permanent appeal (marked in blue)

You're telling me that you've changed in the 5 months that you've been banned? I find that somewhat hard to believe, especially considering that the actions that you took most likely wouldn't have happened if you weren't under the influence of alcohol.

Please tell me, why should we place any trust in you that you won't end up having a few drinks, hopping onto the server and throwing vulgar language towards members of the community?

 

[Tywan Dakan]

You're telling me that you've changed in the 5 months that you've been banned? I find that somewhat hard to believe, especially considering that the actions that you took most likely wouldn't have happened if you weren't under the influence of alcohol.

Firstly I'd just want to say thanks for editing this post to make it easier for others to get all the information, I appreciate it.

From someone's else's perspective I could completely see why you wouldn't think someone is capable of change within the space of half a year, however a lot of things can change within this time, given the unfortunate events that have happened in my life. And yeah it is true, I most likely wouldn't be in this ban situation in the first place if I didn't drink as much as I used to, because it was becoming a problem. 

Please tell me, why should we place any trust in you that you won't end up having a few drinks, hopping onto the server and throwing vulgar language towards members of the community?

I can assure you that any trust placed in me won't come back to hit you in the face. Like I stated before, I only really have a drink once every week or so, and that's when I take the girlfriend out on date night. And even when I do drink nowadays, I don't get drunk, since I stop myself before I get to that point. I have a lot of responsibility in my life now,  like the scouts and my supervisor job, that drinking just isn't something I'd take the risk of doing excessively. 

 

[Jefke V]

it is not the first time someone comes here saying they are changed. And then just proceed with how they acted. 
I am very shocked you even consider telling such thing to someone. Even after a few drinks. 
What will you do to ensure you will conduct yourself this time? 

 

[Tywan Dakan]

I could've imagined it's not the first time someone had said they've changed, but still continue to act how they did, kind of gives it a bad note for us that are actually trying to make things better for ourselves.

To conduct myself this time, I will just avoid any alcohol when planning on entering into the community, as well as steer clear of coming onto the server if I'm ever in a bad mood as well, to make sure that I don't bring any form of negativity into the game. Everyone in the community takes this game seriously and deserve to enjoy the server for what it is. And I want to be the type of person that can give other people a greater experience with my creative roleplay.

 

[Stavik]

In terms of the words used in the manner you did, there will not be another chance after this. Anywhere close to something like this again, its going straight to a perm. 

Do not mess this up, this is your chance.


UNBANNED

 

[Stavik]

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