- Location
- London
In-game Name
Theo Kelvin
Steam ID
76561198079802180
Please provide a link to your previous denied appeal.
https://www.roleplay.co.uk/topic/47972-un-ban-appeal-theo-kelvin-denied-permabanned
In your own words, please type why you think you were banned.
My initial ban was from the ALUK or now RPUK Teamspeak server by Arrogant Bread for "Sharing personal information" (of which I put emphasis on the fact that I didn't actually share personal information but my actions lead to other peoples information being leaked and I was generally acting like a bit of a twat). Now from the start:
I was in the NHS, I had already fucked up quite a lot in the NHS and due to Lharmons kindness was allowed to stay in the NHS. During my time in the NHS whilst I was on late at night, I person approached me who was also in the NHS. He offered leaked emails of various higher ups in the NHS (GPs and CMOs). I very stupidly accepted. I feel that one of the main reasons that contributed to my ban was the fact that in this instance, by not reporting this to an admin I let people in the community be at risk from people leaking their emails. The only notable knowledge that I had at this time was Lharmon's email. I decided (since I couldn't really find a picture of lharmon on the forums) that it would be a good idea to search up this email on facebook. The account was linked not with Lharmons facebook but with his moms. I after finding this out close the tab as I didn't really think of it as interesting at all. I then decided to act like a massive twat.
Fast forward a few days and I ended up messaging Dannish (I think) basically saying "lol I know lharmons moms facebook" in a very bragging threatening tone. I was then moved into a channel by Arrogant bread and after explaining my story banned from the teamspeak. I was later banned in-game for my actions by TheSoldier. I feel that I was banned due to the fact that because I didn't report anything to an admin it resulted (as far as I know) in the leaking of several GP's emails. The fact that me and Lharmon had not been on great terms at the time (since I, once again was acting like a twat around him) made it appear as if my actions were very malicious. The fact that it was also his family must have also made it feel as if it was a very personal attack against him from someone who hadn't been getting along with him at the time. Which I can assure it was not intended to be.
I was then very soon after banned from the forums by Vladic Ka for what was a personal attack against Lharmon. All that I can say about that it was unacceptable and was due to me feeling angry at the fact I had been banned. Because I was feeling angry I lashed out onto the only person that my brain could really connect with being "the bad guy" in the situation, which was Lharmon. (Even though of course he is the victim in this case). I'd just like to say that what I typed on the forums that day was unacceptable and disgusting, I acted out of anger after being banned, I see how this was unacceptable.
What have you been upto in the last 6 months+ ?
School, friends, travelling a bit and climbing.
Why do you want to return ?
For a few reasons, firstly being that I don't feel happy with the way that I behaved, and even though this appeal doesn't mean ill be unbanned (in fact I doubt I will) it still gives me the platform to apologize to lharmon, I really can't say how shitty the entire situation made me feel, and I can only imagine how it might have made you feel.
There is no community like this, this community can make nearly anyone feel welcome, and I can say that I'm only ashamed to have acted so childish in the situation that was presented to me. This community showed me warmth, friendship and kindness but I acted like a prat and threw it back in the communities face.
Why should we unban you ?
I would like to take this first section to apologize to @Lharmon for my actions and to all the others effected by my actions. I really can't say how shitty it must be to have had me, which from your perspective is someone who is just trying to troll and be malicious. I can only attempt to understand what it is like to show kindness to someone and for them to only throw it back in your face, you must understand that I didn't mean to be malicious or to try to troll you, I just made a lot of stupid choices which I hope you could forgive me for. I can assure you that being a troll/mean/malicious wasn't my intentions and that I am deeply sorry for the impact that it has had against you.
I feel that I should have a second chance in this community as although this may sound stupid, this was something in my life that I was never educated on, (this being different levels of friendships). Growing up with a form of autism friendships have always been difficult for me, and being thrown into such a friendly environment with opportunities for friendships around every corner I was happy to dive into a friendship with whoever was happy to be a friend with me. My problem was at this time I had never really had many just "friends", I had close friends but not many just "friends" and when i was thrust into such a friendly community I ended up treating everybody as if they were close friends. I feel I did this because I only really had close friends who I had pretty much no boundaries with. After this incident it actually allowed me to open up to more people as I started to understand boundaries with people and expand my friend group to a lot more people.
I now feel that I am comfortable enough in nearly all social situations, with boundaries of other people. The best that I can do about the past is apologize and try to move forwards myself, having bettered myself from the experience. I would like to move forward from this situation having learnt the most from it, and even if I don't get unbanned I'd just like to say thank you for being banned, this may sound stupid and I assure you I'm not being sarcastic. This has really given me a brilliant opportunity to learn from, I understand where and how I went wrong, and whilst I cannot fix my past, or justify my actions I can assure that this type of situation would never happen again.
Now I just want to say I'm not trying to pull the victim card, everything I did was my fault, don't read this section as if it is an attempt to justify my actions as it is not. All I can hope for is a second chance in this community, I understand completely if you don't think i deserve a second chance.
Thank you for taking the time to read. - Theo
Please confirm this unban request is for you.
Yes
I have read and understand the unban appeal process
Yes
Please confirm you understand there is no timeframe for your appeal.
Yes
I confirm 6 months+ have passed since my denied appeal.
Yes
Before you submit this form please confirm you have fully read the rules click here
Yes
**EDIT
I'd just like to say with the recent actions of GenuineAF (of whom I'd been involved with in previous situations with Lharmon). That outside of the situations with Lharmon we have had no contact and are not at all connected. Just wanted to make this clear as of him continuing to act like a child.
Theo Kelvin
Steam ID
76561198079802180
Please provide a link to your previous denied appeal.
https://www.roleplay.co.uk/topic/47972-un-ban-appeal-theo-kelvin-denied-permabanned
In your own words, please type why you think you were banned.
My initial ban was from the ALUK or now RPUK Teamspeak server by Arrogant Bread for "Sharing personal information" (of which I put emphasis on the fact that I didn't actually share personal information but my actions lead to other peoples information being leaked and I was generally acting like a bit of a twat). Now from the start:
I was in the NHS, I had already fucked up quite a lot in the NHS and due to Lharmons kindness was allowed to stay in the NHS. During my time in the NHS whilst I was on late at night, I person approached me who was also in the NHS. He offered leaked emails of various higher ups in the NHS (GPs and CMOs). I very stupidly accepted. I feel that one of the main reasons that contributed to my ban was the fact that in this instance, by not reporting this to an admin I let people in the community be at risk from people leaking their emails. The only notable knowledge that I had at this time was Lharmon's email. I decided (since I couldn't really find a picture of lharmon on the forums) that it would be a good idea to search up this email on facebook. The account was linked not with Lharmons facebook but with his moms. I after finding this out close the tab as I didn't really think of it as interesting at all. I then decided to act like a massive twat.
Fast forward a few days and I ended up messaging Dannish (I think) basically saying "lol I know lharmons moms facebook" in a very bragging threatening tone. I was then moved into a channel by Arrogant bread and after explaining my story banned from the teamspeak. I was later banned in-game for my actions by TheSoldier. I feel that I was banned due to the fact that because I didn't report anything to an admin it resulted (as far as I know) in the leaking of several GP's emails. The fact that me and Lharmon had not been on great terms at the time (since I, once again was acting like a twat around him) made it appear as if my actions were very malicious. The fact that it was also his family must have also made it feel as if it was a very personal attack against him from someone who hadn't been getting along with him at the time. Which I can assure it was not intended to be.
I was then very soon after banned from the forums by Vladic Ka for what was a personal attack against Lharmon. All that I can say about that it was unacceptable and was due to me feeling angry at the fact I had been banned. Because I was feeling angry I lashed out onto the only person that my brain could really connect with being "the bad guy" in the situation, which was Lharmon. (Even though of course he is the victim in this case). I'd just like to say that what I typed on the forums that day was unacceptable and disgusting, I acted out of anger after being banned, I see how this was unacceptable.
What have you been upto in the last 6 months+ ?
School, friends, travelling a bit and climbing.
Why do you want to return ?
For a few reasons, firstly being that I don't feel happy with the way that I behaved, and even though this appeal doesn't mean ill be unbanned (in fact I doubt I will) it still gives me the platform to apologize to lharmon, I really can't say how shitty the entire situation made me feel, and I can only imagine how it might have made you feel.
There is no community like this, this community can make nearly anyone feel welcome, and I can say that I'm only ashamed to have acted so childish in the situation that was presented to me. This community showed me warmth, friendship and kindness but I acted like a prat and threw it back in the communities face.
Why should we unban you ?
I would like to take this first section to apologize to @Lharmon for my actions and to all the others effected by my actions. I really can't say how shitty it must be to have had me, which from your perspective is someone who is just trying to troll and be malicious. I can only attempt to understand what it is like to show kindness to someone and for them to only throw it back in your face, you must understand that I didn't mean to be malicious or to try to troll you, I just made a lot of stupid choices which I hope you could forgive me for. I can assure you that being a troll/mean/malicious wasn't my intentions and that I am deeply sorry for the impact that it has had against you.
I feel that I should have a second chance in this community as although this may sound stupid, this was something in my life that I was never educated on, (this being different levels of friendships). Growing up with a form of autism friendships have always been difficult for me, and being thrown into such a friendly environment with opportunities for friendships around every corner I was happy to dive into a friendship with whoever was happy to be a friend with me. My problem was at this time I had never really had many just "friends", I had close friends but not many just "friends" and when i was thrust into such a friendly community I ended up treating everybody as if they were close friends. I feel I did this because I only really had close friends who I had pretty much no boundaries with. After this incident it actually allowed me to open up to more people as I started to understand boundaries with people and expand my friend group to a lot more people.
I now feel that I am comfortable enough in nearly all social situations, with boundaries of other people. The best that I can do about the past is apologize and try to move forwards myself, having bettered myself from the experience. I would like to move forward from this situation having learnt the most from it, and even if I don't get unbanned I'd just like to say thank you for being banned, this may sound stupid and I assure you I'm not being sarcastic. This has really given me a brilliant opportunity to learn from, I understand where and how I went wrong, and whilst I cannot fix my past, or justify my actions I can assure that this type of situation would never happen again.
Now I just want to say I'm not trying to pull the victim card, everything I did was my fault, don't read this section as if it is an attempt to justify my actions as it is not. All I can hope for is a second chance in this community, I understand completely if you don't think i deserve a second chance.
Thank you for taking the time to read. - Theo
Please confirm this unban request is for you.
Yes
I have read and understand the unban appeal process
Yes
Please confirm you understand there is no timeframe for your appeal.
Yes
I confirm 6 months+ have passed since my denied appeal.
Yes
Before you submit this form please confirm you have fully read the rules click here
Yes
**EDIT
I'd just like to say with the recent actions of GenuineAF (of whom I'd been involved with in previous situations with Lharmon). That outside of the situations with Lharmon we have had no contact and are not at all connected. Just wanted to make this clear as of him continuing to act like a child.
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