Permanent Ban Appeal - Lacey unban (Unbanned)

[Lacey unban]

In-game Name

Lacey

Steam ID

76561198378598138

Please provide a link to your previous denied appeal.

https://www.google.co.uk/
In your own words, please type why you think you were banned.

Unfortunately i was 1.6 from the community for being apart of a situation that went way overboard and i deeply regret some of my actions in regards of this. Hopefully i am given the chance to explain my side of the events and i will only be truly honest and hopefully be given another chance in this community.

I will go through the ban message sent via email and explain my side of the events that unfolded.


Sat in a teamspeak room
I was sitting in teamspeak with the head of a faction in a different community talking about how i can join it. At the same time i was talking to Cozza and he was telling me that he was banned from RPUK due to RDM. He then connected to the teamspeak i was in to show his side and i could give my opinion on it.

Someone else connected to the room and said he was removed from another community and then Reece that was already in the teamspeak with me at the time said “Guess what ive done, ive stolen RPUK dev-files”. Reece then said he gave around the password to other people that then to my knowledge stole the mission file. He then went on and said he had handed it out to different communities. I then asked that person what a mission file was and what do the files do.

I honestly didn't know at the time what a mission file was so i ended up being very curious around it.
I have never even connected to the development server nor have i ever had ill intentions for RPUK or its community. I have now also realised the fact i should have told staff on RPUK about these things so that proper measures could have been taken to avoid anything, if anything got stolen. Not saying anything in this case is making me just as bad. I should have disconnected and protect myself of getting into trouble like this, and i am well and truly sorry about this.


Trolling on the forum
After all of this talk around the dev-server and Cozza’s RDM ban, Cozza decided to put up a leaving post on RPUK. I was already logged in on the forum and i said you can’t post a leaving post if you are banned. He then said he doing it anyway.
I then made a joke to Cozza that nobody would comment or even care that he left. I said he’s just doing what he did in the UNMC, leaving and rejoining. This is a personal joke between us.

Cozza then said you better reply on it now just in case nobody did. Enzrah in the room at the time said he could not see what was happening and said he’s going to make another account and view Cozza’s unban appeal. Enzrah said look who is viewing your profile, it’s JohnDillinger and laughed. I then realized that this was Enzrah and laughed to it. Now i understand this is not look good laughing alongside someone like Enzrah.

It then popped up on my profile wall that Enzrah had put something there. Taking the piss out of John Dillinger telling me he’s missing me and all that. I then egg planted it, laughed and called him a twat. He then went on to write on Reece Smurf’s wall and saying something about stealing his girl. Clearly taking the piss out a previous situation and in the past at the time. He was then going on saying that he’s putting in an Unban - Appeal for John Dillinger. He said he was going to put on reason banned some personal information about something that have happened between myself and John. I said to Enzrah, don’t you fucking dare. He posted the Unban Appeal in and i then also egg planted that one. Next thing i know i'm 1.6’d I've realised i fucked up. I still have not connected or made any new accounts on the forum to troll, i’m not that kind of person.

What have you been upto in the last 6 months+ ?

Now i must say that i have been active in different communities but when you lose something that you really like, you realise how much you miss it. I have not had any ill intentions and i have not talked shit about RPUK. I have reflected on quite a bit where i went wrong and realised how i should have done things quite a bit different. Reporting back to Staff on RPUK, taking myself out of the situation.

Real life stuff as per usual as we don’t unfortunately live on Altis.

Why do you want to return ?

I have made so many friends in the 10 months i’ve been apart of RPUK and i obviously miss all of them. Some are gone but most of them are still active playing around on the server. People that i still have contact with do urge me to at least try to come back and get my side across. I feel like that other communities are more lenient towards certain behavior and that could make any other experience a bit worse. RPUK have always stood behind the few female players it’s had an i want to just enjoy the game and the people once more.

I really just miss the community and the amazing people that plays on it everyday.
I want to be apart of it again.

Why should we unban you ?

Even though i’ve messed up it will never happen again. I’ve always been respectful towards the community but i messed up this time. I’ve been apart of this community for more or less 10 months and i wish for it to be longer. I would log back in, turn on my RP voice and go around having fun and bringing smiles to everyone that i meet again, just like before.

But as part of the learning process i will work on myself to possibly avoid getting into a situation that might get myself banned again. I now know even though they are my friends i must then do the right thing and approach someone that could deal with the situation accordingly.

I just want to say again that i am truly truly sorry for being apart of such a stupid thing and i can promise you that it will never happen again.
I would like to thank you for your time to even take a look at this and i am more than willing to reply on any questions the person dealing with this must have.

-Lacey

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I confirm 6 months+ have passed since my denied appeal.

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[Wilco]

I think you have brought enough trouble to this community with your ex threating 2 of its members you decided to get friendly with don't you ?

This is why I see right through the fluff you have typed above, I am sure the 10 months and all the friends you have made here was not in your mind during your little stint with Reece and Enzrah trolling the forums and stealing the worthless old mission file on the night.

 

[Lacey unban]

Although this is very personal and i don't like the fact that it has been brought up, but i do understand your point of view. All of this is situation with my ex is very much personal and it has been extremely difficult beyond rpuk.
Now this is my ex and what he does and do in his spare time i do not have any control over. Of course i would wish he would not do it, but it's really up to him. This just shows what can of person he is.

I sincerely do apologise for putting people into that kind of a situation, he is my ex and didn't know he was going to be acting out that way. All i can do is to apologise for his behaviour.


I also do understand this might be “fluff” as you call it but i sincerely do mean it that the friends i've got in the community and good times i did have is something i miss quite a lot. I regret my action on that night, It was quite silly of me and as i put in the post that i should have talked to someone about it and not been apart of that situation. I should of known better and took myself out of the situation. I now realise how stupid i was being apart of it and that's why i’m putting this unban up to apologise and hopefully be given the chance to show you that this will never happen again.
All i want is to be given another chance to come on and enjoy what RPUK has to offer.

 

[Wilco]

What did you expect ? This is a permantent unban appeal so any issues you have brought upon Roleplay.co.uk will be raised

It is certainly no secret, Alot of the community knew about it, It was very public and you was very close from being 1.6 banned back then as i do not like members who work all day and go about the personal lifes coming here for a bit of roleplay and good time being threatened by someones ex its something you only see on a documentary or read about and i feel you didnt do your best in being a bit more careful in keeping this community out of your personal affairs.

However an issue it might be for you and however bad it has been, its not our issue, this community and its members should never have been brought into it, So i hope this has been resolved and wont happen again, I know we lost someone who played here daily due to this, Yes they did go into overload in wanting to be "forgotten" but that can be understood when someone is being very threatening.

You didnt think about the community nor your friends when you remained in that room with Enzrah and Reece did you, Infact you sat there while they trolled these forums taking the piss of someone who had to leave because of your ex's actions.......... I wonder if you liked the fact it was brought up then by them?

No ill answer that, No you sat there and laughed by all accounts while they were taking the piss out of someone who had to leave this community because of your ex's threating behaviour

I am not stupid Lacey, In the weeks following you have been frequenting 2 copycat communitys that just keep unbanning the worst kind of people most of us have experienced not only in an online enviorment but most of us are glad we dont live in the same real life communitys as these people! Yet you sit in the same rooms with them... I wonder if thats part of the reason you want to rejoin here to get away with these idiots.. I doubt it

The mission file is worthless, Big wow some idiots who were trusted with DJ's password abused that fact and was waving there 2 inch virtual cocks around that they had something that they believed would make them big.... Where was you approaching our staff of that fact ?

 

[Lacey unban]

To be honest i didn't know what to expect. I don't usually get myself into this situations. I understand where you are coming from this should of never been RPUK’s problem nor the people he threatened. At the time i wasn't aware what he was doing until told and then i did my best to try and deal with the situation. I completely agree this community and the members should of never been brought into my personal affairs but his actions were beyond my control.

You're right i wasn't thinking at the time, I didn't see it from that point of view. It was very stupid and something i deeply regret now. Looking back i know 100% i should of removed myself from it and approached staff. Yes i did, do play and sit in rooms with Reece, Cozza and other people in that faction, i enjoy arma and roleplaying and now because of my own stupid actions them communities are my only option. Do i agree with what they have done? no… should i have done more to try and stop it? definitely, i should of used my

brain, not got involved, left and i wouldn't be in this situation. I only have myself to blame. All i can do is apologize and use this as a lesson learnt, never get myself into a situation like this again.

As for the rest of them people i don't wish to be around them nor be in the same community as them hence why i am desperate to come back to rpuk and play with my friends. As for the mission file i should of made you aware of what was happening i’m an idiot for not doing that and i can assure you that will never happen again.

I am grateful that you are even using your time to read this and reply, Even when it’s a weekend. So thank you and once again i’m sorry for my stupidity.

 

[Wilco]

I will respond further but firstly can i ask why you only opened this around the same time as Reece Smurf sent an email ?

 

[Lacey unban]

As far as i’m aware my unban was before his email? Reece has mentioned he had emailed to apologise for what he had done but i had already posted my appeal when it was said.

 

[Wilco]

Theres an unanswered question

Do you think its funny that your ex's threats caused a daily member of this community to leave , Do you find it funny that people you are playing with daily chose to troll with that ?

I personally think your speaking aload of bollocks here, Whats the real reason for your return and why your only trying again to return a month or two on ? Whats happened that did not happen before ? The toxic little shits getting too much for you and Reece ?

I suggest being more honest, the more honest you are with me or any member of mangement in this perm appeals forum the more easy we go and a more better outcome will follow.

 

[Lacey unban]

No if i could of done anything to of changed that i would of. Its shit that because of my ex, someone has had to leave this community, it was never what i intended to happen, But that person was always aware of my situation with my ex and how he was. Again, i am really and truly sorry for it and if i could do something about that, i would.

Looking back at it i do not find it funny at all. It is horrendous as he was a decent member of the community and he was taking the piss out a situation that should have never occured in the first place. I did react to it and told him not to, as its embarrassing but it turned into a “heat of the moment” thing which i handled completely wrong. And i deeply regret this. As i said,  if i could of stopped it or even TRIED to stop it. I would but at the time i wasn't aware that he left because of that.

I just miss RPUK and my friends, there's no hidden reason. I have tried to be as honest as i possibly can be in the hope you will see that and hopefully give me another chance.
I understand there is no trust from you to me in this case because of my actions but i am more than willing to work on this trust and once again be considered a good member of the community. It's a bit cocky to say just that but i think i brought a lot of fun and laughter to the server during the good time and this is something i wish to continue with.
I genuinely enjoy roleplaying, forgetting the real life stuff going on just for abit of fun. It's a nice thing and RPUK is the best place for doing so. And when you are surrounded by friends everything is a laugh it’s what makes the day just a tad bit better.
 

I’ve been busy in real life and I have seen other appeals and i must say based on the background of my ban i was a bit afraid of appealing. It comes to show in other appeals that you really care about the community and i knew you would bring that on this one as well. I was nervous of putting myself out there because i didn't know what to really expect. I knew i would miss it just not this much. Having people message me from this community every other day is a constant reminder just how much i miss it, knowing they are on RPUK and i’m not.

Nothing has changed regarding shitters, if i let shitters bother me i wouldn't be online. As for Reece i’m fairly sure he doesn't want to come back. He just didn't want to leave it on bad terms from what he has said regarding the email. Well that's the impression i got from him.
I just really really want to come back where it all started. I started out fresh and if i’m going to continue roleplaying and enjoying the game and friendships. I would like it to be on RPUK.

I have been as honest as i can be, i’m not putting anything under the rug here. I would not even have put an appeal up if it wasn't for the fact that i want to stick around and be a part of this community.
That is why i’m not lying, and i am indeed putting a lot of effort into this. I know for a fact that this is not only my time of day, but also yours or other staff members. Any questions you might have will be answered in an honest and proper way so that in the future you can hopefully say that it was worth unbanning Lacey.

Im not fucking about here, i really want to be apart of this community again.

Again, it's saturday, thank you for being willing to look into this and using your spare time.

 

[Wilco]

mmmm i appericate the honesty and more detail, I am leaning on the side of giving you a chance but i am not too sure why in public your not admitting that it is because of another community allowing bullying to take place with petty comments like "RPUK mong" and "TCK mong" that you are apparently getting.

I found out this information from one of our mutual friends who holds your character in high regard.

I found this information out after pinpointing it could be something to do with nasty little twits elsewhere, We are seeing that alot lately people wanting to return because the grass isnt greener on the otherside! 

So i guess your not putting that out there as the abuse will be worse, but if thats the case it doesnt sound like a place to spend enjoyment time.

My worry is before you sat in a room and event commented on someones goodbye appeal (who was in your room elsewhere ... werid aint it ?) when there was clearly trolling going on and did nothing, Its likely you will sit back again in the future.

As for the ex thing next time he is on our forums and harrasing any of our members during a simlar time period we will be logging this information with the police incase any members want to take it further.

FOR ANYONE READING THIS APPEAL... IF YOU ARE GETTING BULLIED OR RECIEVING NASTY/EDGY COMMENTS ON ROLEPLAY UK PLEASE EMAIL@ROLEPLAY.CO.UK - Its not tolerated and we would rather 1.6 these people before they have an effect on someone.

 

[Lacey unban]

I do understand your worry around this but there is one thing i am absolutely sure about, i will not do the same mistake again. It’s pure and simple just stupid and i have learnt from this.

Yes there is a lot of shitters but there are some good just like anywhere i suppose. As i have already said i don't care about what people say online. If i’m honest i didn’t report it because i didn't care.


I did bring this up in my unban it was a joke between me and Cozza. I told him no one will comment on his leaving post because he does stuff like this all the time, leave and comes back. Cozza asked me to comment so he didn't look stupid if no one did comment.  It was a ongoing joke we have about him spitting his dummy out leaving then coming back.

If i get in a similar situation ever again i will do the proper steps to ensure that first off all i’m not in trouble and then inform Staff/Management about what’s going on or what’s about to happen. I really have learnt from this, i really have.

As for my ex i have already made him well aware of this and that's fine by me, hopefully a similar situation does not occur.

 

[Wilco]

Ok I will ban this unban account but unban your forum account and give you a chance however if i get evidence of someone trolling these forums, our servers and teamspeak and there is evidence that you as involded or even sat in the same teamspeak as them at the time then i will reissue your ban and there wont be any appeal.

I am sure you are unaware about how many forum accounts Enzrah as signed up and but aware of some of the disgusting stuff he has done, he even had the cheek to put it down to a "mental" condition so it could be someone like him or reece who likes to talk absolute bullshit (recent recording of him calling our admins colourful things) that ends up getting you rebanned

You have been warned, however keep your nose clean and you are likey to regain some trust from us.

EDIT:

@Lacey as now been unbanned