Okay, first, ask yourself what initiation is.
Initation is a made up action in game that is supposed to get you to inform / give someone the heads up so they have a chance to comply and listen and adhere to your commands.
So regardless if you say "Sir put your hands on your head now or you will be shot" or the generic "Hands up for die" it don't matter because you are still giving someone a chance to comply with orders. So long as you give them a sufficient amount of time to comply with your orders, it honestly don't matter.
Now this is an RP server where you play roles of people in basically modern times, the roles you play and the things you do have been done in real life one way or the other, so saying "Hands up or die" is bad role play compared to the longer sentenced "initiations" is silly in my opinion. When i am being robbed (which is like never) i care about what RP they give after i am robbed or kidnapped, i could not care less on initiation, initiation is such a minor part of role play that i can't care less.
Finally if I say "Put your hands up now!" whilst aiming a rifle at someone, and they attempt to pull a gun, flee and i shoot them, that is not RDM in my eyes either (even though i current won't do that). The reason i hard to see it as RDM is because:
1. I am aiming a gun at your face
2. I am giving you a direct set of orders while aiming a gun at your face
Unless you have no common sense then you should really listen. And if the person you are initiating on pulls out a rifle you should take them down instantly, you should not say "Put your hands on your head now, if you pull out a rifle you will be shot", they should use common sense (which is hard for some, granted) and not do it, a gun is used to kill, it's not a toy.
Final conclusion - initation is out of hand and is stupid, it should be short and sweet and to the point, not biblical verses that are 100 pages long, we want to RP after the initiation, barely anyone cares about the initiation at hand. We need to be realistic.
@Samatlewis What are your views on my points