It's on the top of the forums, hover your mouse on the teamspeak option and it'll show. Anyway it is; TS.ALTISLIFE.CO.UK
No there is not any exceptions for new players. You may be lucky and get a verbal/written warning but that isn't what you should count on. If anyone is unhappy with your roleplay ( they think it is Fail RP/RDM/VDM ) then join their channel on teamspeak and grab a menotr if needed, meaning you learn how to improve and they get the satisfaction of knowing they've made you improve so you don't get banned.
Re-read the rules as many times as you need, what i find useful is to look at all ban reports that have been accepted/ put up and watch the videos. There you will learn what is acceptable to do and what isn't. It saves it being you being the one reported and learning it the hard way.