Oh shit.... [AN] Assemble!
Welcome back Lecter. Thanks for totally keeping us informed about your dick tubes and what not (sounds like a porn website) .-.
That's why you join a gang that has the same mindset mate. You'll make friends quickly if you head out and find them ;) If all else fails, you can just run around kavala screaming for friends
In all seriousness, I'd suggest browsing through Gangs & Rebels and trying to find a group who have the same mindset as you. Then you should be able to do more than just oil in a large group, makes the world of difference! :)
I think the main reason people turn into vigilante's (myself included) is due to sheer angry and annoyance at these rulebreakers. Typically I'll only lash out at VDM'ers, as they're the most game-ruining IMO.
What we all need to do is just chill in those situations. Take a step back and realise...